Posts Tagged ‘relationships’

ad disclaimers

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

I don’t know what it is about me, but whenever I see an ad, I instinctively look for the small print to find the ‘gotchas’. It may have to do with my cynical nature when it comes to advertising, or it may have to do with my dislike of most advertising.  But it’s an almost obsessive drive I have to check out the fine print to see where the company is trying to pull the wool over my eyes.  

For the few times in my life that I’ve been in a ‘sales pitch’ position I always felt a little dirty afterwards. I’ve never been really comfortable trying to persuade someone to buy/lease/use something without giving them the low-down. I’m much more comfortable discussing the positives AND negatives of an idea/product/item than actively avoiding the negatives aspect of said subject.   Now I don’t have a problem selling anything, just in the act of persuading the other person.  The only time I’ve felt differently is when I’m selling someone on myself, most usually in relationships.  

Most everybody’s been on both side of a relationship breakup.  The break-upper, trying to be gentle yet firm and not giving in to the sales pitch when the break-upee is fighting to stay together.  And I’ve been the one fighting to keep the relationship when the girl wants to end it.  I guess my normal objectivity goes out the window when relationship emotions get worked up.  But that’s can be a good thing.  When in a relationship, there should be no holding back.  

I’ve grown accustomed to the usual disclaimers on any advertising related to wireless cellphone companies.  But an ad on facebook caught my eye today for AT&T.  

Disclaimer: I’m a former AT&T customer who left due to the outrageous internet rates they were going to charge me when I purchased a smartphone.  I switched to Sprint for the $20 per month cheaper internet rates.

 

AT&T Ad

AT&T Ad

I am amused by AT&T’s lawyers coming out of the woodwork to update their disclaimers to more accurately reflect the contracts that they require their customers to sign to get the best deals on hardware.  I’m used to the regular disclaimer “2 year contract required, early termination fees apply”.  Simple, sweet, to the point.  Then a couple years ago they added “3G not available in all areas”.   I understand, don’t want to misrepresent AT&T’s (notoriously bad) 3G coverage.  But now they’ve added “significant restrictions apply”.  Has hell frozen over?  Pigs flying? (Oh wait, their flu is flying around the world….bad example!).  I guess some of AT&T’s recent bad press has them getting more sensitive to the response that their data rates (correctly) bring out of people.  But I am overly glad that they are now at least hinting some of the (artificial) limits they are placing on their data plans. 

Maybe people will see enough these disclaimers to cause them to look more closely at their usage agreements with their wireless carrier and start to ask questions on why they can’t use their phone or netbook the way they were designed.  And start to demand that the large sums of money we are paying to the wireless carriers allow us to use their networks for our own purposes and not solely to increase their bottom lines. 

 

Till Next Time

new years sucks

Thursday, January 5th, 2006

new years sucks…….

ok, i guess a little more elaboration is needed.I’m always alone for new years and usually i’m working. only twice have i had a girlfriend on new years and both times i didn’t get to spend the countdown with them and ever since my first year in college i’ve had to work new year’s eve, damn pizza business

anyway……on to (slightly) better things, in 6 days i start back to school *mass hysteria in the background* going to NGCSU good ole military college of georgia and i’ve realized that unless you’re in the rotc you can’t impress any of the girls, you see, the uniforms they wear, unfair advantage, but anyway, taking computer classes, so i can know even more than you about them :)

past few days i’ve been suffering from this sickness crap, for the first time in over 4 years i got sick, i forgot how much being sick sucks. the last time i remember getting sick was when i was a senior in high school (1999) yikes!! and that’s when they ripped my tonsils out (btw, this excludes the two self induced food poisoning incidents)

that’s enough for now, me tired, since i’ve been sick i’ve been going to bed really early, like 2:00am
Till Next Time

patrick

being a nice person

Sunday, June 12th, 2005

It’s amazing how many nice things people will say to/about you when you’re a decent person. I’m a pretty straight forward person, I don’t talk about people behind their back, I do what I say I’m going to do and I treat people with respect and compassion. I feel i’m a good person, but listening to what people say about me sometimes makes me feel like I’m a saint.

I was hanging out at my friends apartment the other day and as I was leaving some of his neighbors were outside that I knew. I stopped to talk with them for awhile and we discussed various events that have happened recently in my life and theirs. The neighbors were very amazed that I had handled the situations with such aplomb and decentness and just kept saying that they wished all guys were like me.

Now, I’m not posting this trying to act like I’m such a great person, it’s just the opposite. The way I handled the situations were what I would expect anybody to do when put in the positions I’ve been in. I just do what I think is right and fair and do that. 

So anyway, I guess my quick life lesson would be:
Treat everyone (including yourself) fairly
and
Don’t go behind people’s backs

Voila!
Till Next Time

patrick

Weddings and the death of the clique

Sunday, April 10th, 2005

I got an email today from a friend announcing that he’s marrying his girlfriend in two weeks. Sigh…….another one lost. I have four good friends from high school that I’m still in touch with and now one is married, one is getting married in two weeks and me and the last friend are the only ones still free.

I actually have no problem with my friends getting married and I have nothing against any of the girls. It’s just that it makes hanging out with them that much more difficult. Hanging is already hard enough to do with work schedules, commitments and sleeping conflicting. Two friends are 9-5 workers and the other and I are night shift people.

I don’t like the gradual separation that happens coming out of high school, but I guess it is inevitable. You just have to work harder at keeping those friends and making sure you make time for them.

Good Luck Josh…

Till Next Time

patrick

and then the downside

Monday, March 21st, 2005

Isn’t it great when you find that perfect someone that you click with, and doesn’t it suck when you find that you may lose that person through no fault of your own. When they may decide that it might be better to work it out with an ex even though you both know that you have something really, really special.

It seems that sometimes life can be extremely difficult and that nothing goes your way. But even with the latest developments I’m still happier by being with her this short amount of time. Normally I would be really depressed and make oblique references as to whether it’s better to just not have to deal with relationships anymore, or even life for that matter, but I’m not. She’s that special and makes me feel like every perfect moment in life is wrapped up and sitting inside your head. Whenever I may get a little depressed I just lightly touch on that ball of perfection and I immediately feel better.

It’s scary, kinda. I’ve never had this kind of woman before or this intense a relationship, and it’s great. I don’t want it to end.

Anyway, I meant this post to just tell about the depressing side of relationships but she’s already made me happier and feel better. So my next post I promise will be to get the critiques put up about TSS.

By the way, The ScreenSavers has officially died. This last friday was the last show. They are taking a week off and coming back with a new set, new name, but same cast. It will now be known as “Attack of the Show”, which will apparently be a lifestyle show of up to the minute news. I have two feelings about this: first, I’m happy they got rid of the screensavers name because it hasn’t been anywhere near that kind of show for months, and second, sad that the show that I loved to watch for 7 years is gone, finito, dead. I really loved having Leo, Pat, Cat, Kevin R., Sarah, Yoshi on the show. It was sometimes campy but they showed and talked about what they loved and it was all about the tech.

R.I.P. TSS

Till Next Time

patrick

losing friends

Monday, March 7th, 2005

Isn’t it strange how you can lose friends. Not through disagreements or fighting, but just not putting the effort to keep those friends close. I have a small number of people I would call friends. I have probably 3 friends, all guys. One is married, one has been dating the same girl for about two years and the other is living with his girlfriend.

Needless to say, we all have busy/complicated schedules when trying to get together to hang out. I’ve never been one to really put all of my being into forming lots of relationships, it can be very time consuming for not much reward. Most of my friendships that have fallen by the wayside are the kind that are convenient in the situation and we’ll hang for a while, then when we no longer work together, go to the same class, etc… we end up not talking anymore.

The other day, one of my coworkers that I haven’t seen in about 5 months popped up and we talked for a while. I realized that I missed hanging out and I consciously made the effort to start up a conversation a couple days later to really start a friendship that wasn’t just convenient.

And so, from now on(or until it gets to be too much effort), I will purposely try to make friends with the people that I get along with well. And that I believe I could actually be friends with that are fake, two-faced, etc…

Till Next Time

patrick

Interesting Dynamics in Relationships-2

Friday, February 18th, 2005

When you end a relationship with a person, especially if you’re on the receiving end of the break up, you have to sooner or later get over that person. If you love them, it usually takes time and lots of thought. So when a few months later if you hear that the ex is now dating someone else it may or may not bother you.

But, I’ve gotten to that point now where it doesn’t bother me that she’s with someone else, though I have had dreams about said ex, I thought I was more or less over her. Then I call her to ask how she’s doing. She tells me. I start to get the knot in my stomach, like she kicked me unexpectedly and my insides just ball up and make me nauseous. I thought I was over her, till she tells me that while we were still trying to work things out she went and slept with another guy.

Funny how some people have a strangle hold on your emotions even when you think that you’ve walled off that section of your life and thoughts. I guess there is always a crack in that wall when an ex breaks it off when you love them. So, I sit being hurt and needing somebody and she tells me to call her whenever I need her, yeah, likely. I’ve already been hurt enough by her, I generally try to spread my pain and emotional agony over different women throughout my life rather than have one tramp back and forth over me.

Oh well, that’s life I guess.

Till Next Time

patrick

Interesting Dynamics in Relationships

Friday, February 11th, 2005

So I had a little epiphany last night. Guys have somehow done a little social engineering when it comes to sex. In my experience and in the tv world( the perfect representation of the real world), when a guy is about to get past first base the girl is usually ready to take some clothes off but the guy usually still has all his clothes on. 

My theory goes like this. If the guy can get the girls clothes off first then she’ll be more likely not to jump away and scream when she see’s the guy’s less-than-perfect body. With society so focused on the female’s body it takes a guy’s attention away from his own body and so more often than not, I believe a girl has a more in shape body than the guy.

I’m not sure how the men of the world got the girls to be so eager to take their clothes off first, but I won’t complain about the arrangement. :)

Till Next Time

Patrick